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Goal set but also enjoy the process and create the good feelings daily.

So here’s the ultimate question…

What do you want out of your life?

When I ask people this, most of them respond with answers such as more money, a bigger house, a better car, a new watch ( things goals) or others say to be happy or to have a better body or a better relationship. You know the usual stuff….

But all these things and processes we want all equate down to one thing…

What do all these things give us in our mind?

They give us better feelings, more positive feelings and Feelings of love, happiness, joy, pride, achievement, success, etc.

Ok, so the reality is we are all pursuing our goals to give us better feelings about ourselves or better feelings in life in general, which is fantastic. Setting goals and having plans is extremely positive and something I do consistently and also help my clients to do so they have something fab to focus on and so they can achieve their dreams.

But I also think the important part to remember is that you don’t need to always pursue goals to feel happy and to reach all those other feelings you want to feel. You can feel more of the positive feelings that you want to feel on a daily basis just by focusing on creating those positive states on a daily basis.. if your goal is to be happier then ask yourself daily how can I be happier today? If your goal is to be richer, ask the question how can I feel richer today?

If your goal is to have a better body ask yourself what can I do today to feel healthier?… it’s all about asking the right questions that are positive on a daily basis to get better answers so you can feel better daily..

So many people say to themselves or out loud, well I will be happy when I have lost a stone… or I will be happy when I have won the lottery. But that then means the whole time you are pursuing those goals you aren’t going to be happy, until when you have hit your target.

Don’t create goals like that….

It means you will have a miserable journey along the way. Be careful when you are setting your goals and make sure you see yourself enjoying the process and tell yourself you will be happy the whole way along the process… that is so important.. make your mind up to enjoy the process of reaching your goals and dreams but in the mean time ask yourself empowering questions on a daily basis to keep yourself upbeat, happy, focused and feeling fabulous.

 

 

 

 

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